We now all know that child support has been an issue. We all know that "daddy" isn't around. When every other sentence out of my son's mouth has to do about "daddy", who knows any thing....
"My Daddy used to play (X) game with me".
"My Daddy takes me to the park."
"My Daddy talks to me all the time".
He is brought up so often, that his school asks when they see each other.
My response is usually that his father is far away. That we have no way to get in touch with him.
The older my kid gets, the more intricate the questions get.
The last one was if I had his phone number and could we call him. Talk about breaking my heart.
I would love it if someone could possibly give me some kind of clue about how to deal with this. I'm completely at a loss. How many times do you think a 5 year old will be ok hearing, "Baby, he's just far away" or "He didnt leave you baby, he had to go home to his mommy & daddy".
Having an answer as big as a billboard would be wonderful! We know that would never happen. It would just be nice for something to come to me and help me figure out the really difficult things that make up our lives....
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