Pre-k graduation

He can really be such a goober...  

Paid no attention at all, and yawned through what was maybe 15 minutes of songs that he has sung for me non stop since they started practicing.

I have also found out, that there are at least 4 girls in his class that looooooove him!  One actually chased him around just to get a picture with him.  Another wants to marry him.  

I really am in so much trouble.  

He's such a cutie though, and so genuinely sweet....  Even the mothers adore him.

I love knowing I'm doing something really really right

Changing directions

I hate Father's Day!  There is no way around it.  I love my own father, and my three brothers are amazing fathers as well.  

Father's Day was the turning point for my relationship with my sons sperm donor.  It is now a constant reminder of the misery I had to deal with.  

But, on the other hand...  I could be thankful that the fucker who left has nothing to do with my little man.  I should be thankful.  He would have been a miserable father to this boy.  

When thinking of this I realized...  This blog became a misery.  It was all about the darkness I was feeling and the pain I had to deal with.  

My awesome friends sent me some Father's Day e-cards.  They reminded me that not only am I an amazing Mother but I'm a pretty damned good father as well.

I also noticed a large amount of women were on my pintrest board today.  Some were just re-pinning articles, others were enjoying the cards.  A number of women started following me.  (VERY AWESOME btw)

The one thing I realized is that we all don't need to focus on the crap.  We all get way too much of that anyway.  I don't know about you but reality and crap smack me in the face at least twice a day.

I choose to deal with reality and the crap with sarcasm and comedy.  Then it really hit me...  Most of us deal with reality and crap the same way.

So this is where I stop and change directions. I will continue to vent when necessary, but until then...

Let the sarcasm flow!!!

Hope you enjoy!