Well, I've complained some about the politics and restraints of the child support offices in at least two different states.
I know that NY working with TX has been a long dragged out process that has me so aggravated. I spoke with the Law Office of NY, the Department handling the interstate case, and was told that the state of TX thought they had info, but they didn't, and they were still trying. I would have to wait another 6 weeks before contacting them again.
Now, I'm not a quiet person, and have been dealing with NO child support for now 2 1/2 years, so I'm pretty angry. I asked the woman (who really seems nice and is trying) if there was ANYTHING else I could possibly do. I hate sitting back with hands tied.
I had the opportunity 2 years ago to put him in jail, and I want him there now. What can I do?
Her response was that I could write a letter voicing my complaints, have it notarized, and send it to her and she would then send it to the state of Texas.
ARE YOU F^&%%NG Kidding me????? Write a letter????? That's it??? Yes, that is all I could do.
So I said thanks and I would think about it. I'm not writing a letter to the State.
That day I happen to check my support disbursements just in case... I actually got $21.... What? Where the ??? As far as I know the lazy sperm donor isn't working and refuses to speak to me about anything...
I didn't get my hopes up, maybe he just won a scratch off or something.
Two weeks later... another deposit !!!!
Can this be possible? Is he working? Did the system work?
I'm not holding my breath for now. I'm giving it another two weeks to see if I get another deposit.
At this point any money helps.. even though he owes me about a years salary.
Fingers crossed... this isn't the end of this....
Would be nice to see something good happen for all the work that Ive done...
